Are you in a relationship that just isn't making you happy? You don't want to hurt that person and are trying to end it on good terms? . Don't worry, in Fashion Tips we give you 6 tips so that the farewell is not so painful for both of you.
1. Right time
If you are in the middle of an argument, it is best to breathe and talk with him at another time, if he has had a very hectic day at work or school, it is better to wait until you find a quiet moment. You can ask them to meet in a cafe or public place so you will prevent them from getting upset and starting the screaming and loud claims.
2. Sincerity
Think before you see what you will say to him, if it will be the last talk they have regarding their relationship, it is better that you be honest with yourself and with him. Don't worry if your reasons will hurt him, think of the correct words you will use, and don't beat around the bush ... Direct and to the point is always the best to keep the point of the talk. Do not try to make him share your reasons, as long as he understands them, it is enough
3. Speak for yourself
Do not speak in the plural, it is always better to speak in the singular and say what you did not like about the relationship, what you did to solve and what you expect from life ... Sometimes we make the mistake of recriminating and telling our Couple how badly he has done things but we do not think that this is his way of being and neither you nor anyone else will make him change so it is preferable to say that your path is no longer the same as his. Make it very clear that you are the one who does not feel happy in that relationship, as it may happen that he is phenomenal and does not understand the breakup.
4. In person
Nowadays it is very simple to end a relationship, you send an email, you delete it from Facebook or you send it a text message and then you block it so that it never knows about your life again ... The truth is that these types of tools are very little personal and will not speak well of you, always remember to do what you would expect them to do for you. In-person, face to face and even if your nerves beat you and some tears come out, it is much better.
5. Withdraw at the right time
The point will come when there will be no more to say ... Do not stand in front of him, take your things tell him that there is nothing more to talk about and that you wish him the best in the world, turn around and leave without kisses, without hugs, and without tragic comments. Both you and she will get over the breakup and I'm sure both of you will find your better half
6. Prepare for the worst
If he is a little impulsive, you run the risk that after such news he will go crazy and tell you things that will surely hurt you, because his intention will be to make you feel bad for breaking up with him. There is also the possibility that he cries and begs you not to leave him, if you allow this it could turn into a nightmare because in his eagerness to win back you could hallucinate him. If you are 100% sure that this relationship is not what you want, you must show it in your words and attitude, do not be arrogant, just be firm and ready!
When you don't like a meal, just stop eating it and voila! It is the same with love relationships, if the dish that was previously to your liking no longer causes you pleasure when eating it, it is time to leave the table
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